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Why you might be struggling as a work martyr

Tell me if this sounds familiar:

You’re sitting in a meeting at work, discussing a new project, when your manager asks who wants to take the lead. “I definitely don’t have bandwidth right now!”, you think to yourself, mentally rattling off your current to-do list. You have way too much on your plate, as usual. But 10 seconds pass, and no one else has raised their hand yet. Your palms begin to sweat, and you know what’s about to happen….As if it’s no longer attached to your body, you see your hand start to go up in the air. “No, wait!”, you mentally say to yourself in a panic. But it’s too late. You’ve taken one for the team, and you’re leading yet another project.


If this sounds familiar, you’re in good company. And you might be suffering from the (non-official, as far as I know) ailment: you might be a work martyr.

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